In my work, I am often asked to teach people how to set and achieve goals. When I ask my aduiences, “Why is it so important that you realize your goals?” they often answer, “Because getting the things I want will make me happy.” While there is an element of truth in this answer – getting the things we want often does bring a measure of joy into our lives – it somehow misses the mark.
The real value of setting and achieving goals lies not in the reward you receive but in the person you become as a result of reaching your goals. This simple distinction has helped me to enjoy the path of the life while, at the same time, staying focused on meeting my personal and professional objective.
As one of my favorite philosophers, Ralph Waldo Emerson, observed, “The reward for a thing well done, is to have done it.”
When you achieve a goal, whether that goal was to be a wise leader or to become a better parent you will have grown as a person in the process. Often, you’ll not be able to detect this growth, but the growth will have occured. So rather than savoring only the rewards that have flowed from the achievement of that goal, celebrate the fact.that the process of reaching your destination has improved the person you are.
You have built self-discipline, discovered new things about your personalities and manifested more of your human potential. These are reward in and of themselves.
By Robin Sharma, Who will Cry when you Die?
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Hello,
I hope you all are doing great. I am awesome, thank you for asking even if you didn’t, haha.
So, this is a book excerpt from the book Who will cry when you Die from Robin Sharma, and I simple adore the tips and ways to live a healthy and worthy life. Give it a read for sure, it is a small pocket book type and very effective.
And yes, we need to talk today and for that we need a topic, so today’s topic is:
*drumbeats* tada!!!
“What would be your reaction if you discovered a tree who can talk?”
I will be waiting for you in the comment’s section, so do hurry!
Don’t forget to comment even if you forget to like… (I think I should put this as tagline, haha)
Have a very good day,
See you very soon…
Great post!! And to answer your question, I’d be thrilled to get to talk to a talking tree!!πππ
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haha, so would you tell anyone else about it?
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Maybe, maybe not. What will you do, would you tell anyone?
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No never, they would cut it down for their news channel… haha, that’s the reality…
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Well, if we talk about reality, they still get cut down even when they don’t talk . Actually, they do talk in their own language but we’re quite unable to listen to them or understand them! After all, they are living beings too!! π¦ π¦
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“The real value of setting and achieving goals lies not in the reward you receive but in the person you become as a result of reaching your goals.” This right here. I’m writing this down and saving it. β€
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thank you so much for you found it helpful! I am resally glad you liked it,
By the way, you didn’t answer the question at the end of this post…
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Dah! I’m sorry I missed the italicized text. *forehead slap*
Would you think I’m crazy if I told you I’ve talked to trees? I swear I’m not (that) crazy, but when I was a child I literally hug the tree in my backyard and talk to it. In case you are wondering, the tree never talked back, but I like to think in some way it heard me.
That said, if a tree did literally speak to me, I would be ecstatic. Also, I probably wouldn’t believe it unless it happened again.
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Haha, and you know what, hugging a tree is one of the best feelings ever…
I hope your novel is going fantastic… and yes, I asked for your feedback over my blue. Watery Eyes but you were busy, no problem, read it as you like….
ππ I won’t mind if you are busy, writers are always busy, haha… totally understand that!
Have a great day!!!
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You know what, I’m going to read it right now, before the little one wakes up.
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Thank you so much!!!! πππππππ I hope the little one is watching beautiful dreams…
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He just woke up screaming, “Ma!” “Mama!!” LOLOL β€
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“Life is about journey”
I honestly agree with ya…!!!
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I am really glad you agree with the author.
thank you so much for reading it and yes, what would be your answer to the question at the end of this post?
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Hahaha…talking tree?? I will leave both my kids with it so they talk to each other and I will myself take a loooong undisturbed nap!
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Haha, that’s awesome!!!
Busy the kids with the tree and get some sleep… π
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Moms think on a different track ππ
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Haha, yes they do definitely… π
You know garba?
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Not much. Just the basic steps. I learn every year and then forget. π
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Going to do in school… haha inter section competition… and you know what, our group’s performance was best in the street play and we won…. we also won music competition previously, I think luck is with us…
Now this folk dance competition, we have to win this and for this I kept dancing on Nagada sang dol baje for 2 hours… haha
ππ
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Wah…gr8!! Such activities take the fatigue out of studying and add a different dimension to your personality. Luck favours only those who try. Am sure you were good. All the best. ππ
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Yeah we were surely good as we were the only group who forgot the lines but still managed their street play… haha πππ
Thank you Di…
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Haha…that is what a street play is! In fact people change their lines extempore after judging the crowd. ππ
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Yeah, once in a play, my line was “I would like to call my group mates… and what I said was I would like to call my soul mates and I laughed at for the whole day!!!πππ
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πππ Really!!?? I hope there were girls in your group! ππ
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They both were girls… haha and the whole class laughed at it, even they both… and we forgot our dialogues for a while… but still managed as always!!!
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That’s hilariously awesome!! ππ
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lol
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Hahahha! That was one epic and unexpected answer! πππ
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very well written !!
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Thank you so much!!! ππ
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Except the fact that it is a book excerpt and not written by me… π
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the entire thing??
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No, except the end message, haha…
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http://m.fagnum.com/blog/not-everything-you-want-you-get
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this is my link of fagnum….pls support, dear
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Yes my friend it is all about the journey which we have started from unconscious divinity to consciousness and knowing who we really are, not this illusion but the reality. Superb post Harsh and great motivational speakers and spiritual masters only know what and where we need to go. πππππππππ
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Yes, you are absolutely correct…
It’s all about the journey, even I love the process more than the result!!!
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Yes and you put it so rightly that Life is not a destination but a journey to know ourselves, simple yet difficult.
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Why only tree and not the other creatures in the universe could talk and tell us we r all one and our egos r making us being apart from all of us, we are one in this game of beginningless beginning.
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Yes, one more perspective, interesting… ππ
You are true, only if we wake up our hearts and understand them… ππ
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Yes Harsh and that waking is not easy, it takes us eons to realise that this is what we really are. Have a nice day dear.
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You too Di, have a very nice day!!
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Thanks π dear Harsh, have a nice day.
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In the world I create for myself daily dear Harsh the trees not only speak but they sing to me! hahaha!
π β€ π
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Wow, that’s so awesome!!!
I would love to enter your world, still waiting… ππ
Have a great day!
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You will get there sooner than you know Harsh! haha! Life really is what you make of it and you have such an incredible imagination and boundless determination I can’t even begin to image what great things are in store for you, my friend! π
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I wish the same for you!!!!
Just 1 month more to Christmas…. yay
Thank you so much!!!!!!! ππ
Have a great weekend…
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Thank you so much! You as well Harsh! π
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Amazing and so true. We must focus more on the journey than the end.
Anyways, if I discovered a tree who could talk, I would ask it what it has seen/felt in its lifetime and if it has any advice for me from seeing other people’s failures.
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Oh yes, you are correct!
Wow, that’s a very nice question…
He will probably tell you that people give up… or maybe he’ll tell you that they dream about their goals in his shelter but they don’t live their dream… ππ
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thumbs up on book excerpts..
then on talking tree, will keep it as a secret….shhhhhhhh otherwise, no doubt that the tree will be vanished soon
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Haha, very true…
Smart haan, let it be a secret… π
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Well!! If I met a talking tree, I will listen to him..π
Its common for all us to chatter the all day..so instead of discussing my life, I would prefer listening to him..
*how does he feel that he is able to talk*π π
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Wow, there are a very few people like you… I mean those who listen to understand… ππ
Thank you so much!!!
Have a great day!!!
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A talking tree??..Thatz new
Hmm..I would surely like to meet a talking tree..In today’s world we cant easily trust anyone..But A tree, so pure and selfless, it would be a privilige to get to know such a selfless being..π
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Thats very true Mayank Sir…
I am really glad you took time to read this, I hope you liked it…
Have a great day Bhai!!! π
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Hey..this is a superb post..Robin Sharma is the master of writing such incredible books..and coming to the talking trees, I hope trees could actually talk so that people would be scared of cutting trees.
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Wow, I’ve never thought that way… trees talking against the cutters… π
Thank you so much!!
Have a great day…
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Please take me to a talking tree first.. I would like to get amazed listening to her voices. π
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Then you’ll have to travel with me in my fantasy world…
Did you read my blue Watery Eyes series, I would love to hear about it from you…
You were away for so long…
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Sure ! I will. I love fantasies..
Blue Watery Eyes ? Series ?
This looks exciting.. I will surely visit your blog to read.. I hope I haven’t missed much.. βΊ
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Well! If I get a talking tree then I will surely get his suggestions on all those tricks I used to disturb my younger brother, but he is so kind, he is used to say that he enjoy whatever I do and ask when I don’t? He is just opposite of mine, an introvert shy sweet bhai. And now your post absolutely we should enjoy the journey the reward itself become its beautiful destination! Thanks for sharing! π
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Haha, all sisters are like that only. They are like Queen Elizabeth when there brothers are there to do the work but the real power comes to the brothers when mom is around.. and changes to sister when dad is around… haha
You’re welcome!!!
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Exactly! When dad is around its a real victory for us, haha.
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You are right.. we in the rush to reach the finish line we forget to enjoy…
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Absolutely true and we forget that real happiness lies in the process, not the result… π
Thank you so much!
Have a great day… π
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True…. really admired
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Thank you so much for reading, I am really glad you liked it!
Have a great day… π
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U too
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The post conveys strong message!
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Thank you so much!!!
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This is amazing right?
Not everytime you need to be rewarded. But rewards do motivate to perform better! This cannot be denied. But yes, the journey is in itself rewarding.
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Yes, you are correct.
Thank you so much for reading!!!
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I’ll ask that tree to fall his flowers on me so that I can take a good picture π
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Oh that’s a very unique wish…
Thank you so much for your comment!! ππ
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Have you read the book?
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Oh yes!!
The book is awesome!! Have you read it?π
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No, but willing to read it after 4 months.
Tell me the reason of HOLIDAY…
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I don’t know there’s some Jayanti, maybe… π
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No Christmas holidays?
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Great concept..loved the talking treeπ
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I am glad you loved it!
Thank you so much… ππ
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Harsh I have read his book the monk who sold his ferrari and it was amazing and I have heard about this book but not yet gone thru it, think I will buy it. The post itself was so good and what if the tree walked, Oh I would love it if a tree walked with me not saying anything but just walked with me. It would great. Lovely post.
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It’s a great book. Though it has not got any story just lessons, but they are also worth a read!
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Ya but I loved the way he presented it.
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No I’m not taking about monk and the Ferrari, I’m talking about who will cry when you die… I think you misunderstood. No problem. ππ
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Kk but u know I was thinking of buying the book and reading but will go in Google and read from there
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Thanks on my poem too all of a sudden can’t find it right now on my mobile and u give such great thoughts thanks once again baba.
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Even I like Robin sharma,did u read the monk who sold ferrari by him?
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I am sorry but I haven’t read it. Do you recommend it?
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It’s more of philosophy and principle of life,if you like reading such kind then u can….
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I will try it, as I get time.. ππ
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Dear,u in fb?only if u wish to say ..
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I am so sorry Di, but I don’t think I will be able to afford another social account as that will impact my study time. And I am very easily distracted by these things. And since it’s 11 and that too pcmb, I gotta work much harder.
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That’s ok,v good decision I must say:)
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Thanks much for understanding, Di! π
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I’d ask the tree to shut up! π
After all the talking people in this world ..would be hell if the trees started talking and gossiping about the other trees! π
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πππ But do you think that trees will behave like us? I thought they were more intellectual…
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They’d probably be more respectful π
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I’ve always agreed with this quote. Thanks for the reminder, dear.
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You’re so welcome!! ππ
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Love your blog’s background pic too, by the way.
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You do? I searched for it really hard. Thank you so much for acknowledging it!
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Ahh…a really nice post to read π
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Ahh… A really nice comment to reply! ππ
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I was tlking about the above excerpt that you hv written. It is very enlightening π
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A talking tree? It will surely get tired answering the journalist about it’s uniqueness. I’m gonna feel sorry for it. God save the talking π²
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Hahaha, god save the talking! truly! lol
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The person we become is truly more important the things we acquire.
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That’s so true! Thank you for reading this and sharing your views!
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